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Blog Action Day - Being Frugal and the Environment

October 15, 2007

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This post was written for my other blog, beingfrugal.net. However, since it’s Blog Action Day, I think it’s also appropriate to post it here.

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According to Dictionary.com, the definition of frugal is “economical in use or expenditure; prudently saving or sparing; not wasteful.” Here at beingfrugal.net I usually apply frugality to finances, but frugality is really much more than that. It’s making the best use of the resources around you. That includes taking good care of the environment.I’ve mentioned before that I’m not a hard core environmentalist. You’ll never find me lobbying to save the salmon when it means the farmers around the streams will starve. However, I also believe that God expects us to be good stewards of this earth. That means not being wasteful in our use of products and energy.How does this look in everyday life? I’ll tell you how this looks in my own life, and you can feel free to add your own thoughts and ideas in the comments.

  • I recycle whenever possible. I’m fortunate to live in a city with curbside recycling. I keep a box for recyclable material right outside the kitchen door, and when I use something that can be recycled, I just toss it out the back door into the box. It doesn’t take very much effort at all, and it really helps the environment.
  • I try to watch my energy usage. I turn off the lights when I leave a room. I use Compact Fluorescent Bulbs. I try not to have the TV, the radio, and the computer all on at once. I shut the doors and windows when I’m running the a/c or furnace. And I line dry clothes in the summer when it’s practical.
  • I watch how much water I use. I try to take short showers, and I don’t bathe my kids in a tub full of water. I only put enough water in the tub to clean my children. When I wash the dishes, I try to only wash a sinkful of dishes at a time, so I’m not filling up the sink to wash 3 dishes.
  • I buy from the bulk food bins. Not only is it less expensive than buying packaged food, less packaging means less waste.
  • I don’t use my car when I don’t have to. Again, I’m fortunate to live in a small town, so when the weather is nice, I can walk my daughter to school, walk to the store, and walk to the library (I’m sure looking forward to the day our library re-opens, but I digress).

None of these things take very much time or effort, yet they do our environment a lot of good. What are you doing this week to take care of our environment?

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Chief Domestic Engineer

September 17, 2007

That’s my title. It sounds better than “homemaker” or “housewife”. Homemaker and housewife sound like such, well, easy jobs. And being a stay at home mom is no easy job, let me assure you. It takes a lot of skill to make a household run smoothly. These three qualities make me a better Chief Domestic Engineer.

I love to learn. I am constantly reading, looking things up on the internet, and asking my friends for information. I research how to save money, how to organize, how to be a better wife and mother. I read books, articles, anything I can get my hands on. My family laughs at me, because I am an information magnet. I don’t laugh though. I feel a sense of exhilaration when I implement a new idea and it works the way it’s supposed to. I revel in my accomplishment when I save 74% on a trip to Target, because I’ve researched prices and I know when a deal is good enough to pounce on. Learning is a love of mine, and it serves me well in life.

I’m flexible. I will admit this is not a trait I was born with. My husband has often said that I hate change, and I do. But to be a successful domestic engineer, you have to be flexible. So I have learned the fine art of flexibility. I’m able to adjust my schedule on a moment’s notice when one of my children is sick and needs to stay home from school. If my husband forgets to take his cell phone to work, I’m able to jump in the car and drive it out to him. When my day needs adjusting, I adjust. When one of my children needs my full attention, I’m able to drop what I’m doing to pay attention. Flexibility is essential.

I love the Lord. This is perhaps the most important quality I posses in my role as Chief Domestic Engineer. By following the statutes God sets forth in His Word, my priorities are already mapped out for me. Proverbs 31 gives me a pretty good idea of what I should be striving for, even though I know I will never achieve perfection. When I don’t know what to do, I can ask the Lord for wisdom, and according to James 1:5, it will be given to me. When I am tired and feel like I can’t go on (and doesn’t every mom reach this point at least once?), I know that I can turn to Him for strength and comfort. He is always there, willing to take my burden from me when I can’t bear it anymore. He is always there rejoicing with me when my children grasp another tidbit of faith. Knowing that God is there to help me through anything I might face gives me the confidence to do my job on this earth to the best of my ability.

Being a Chief Domestic Engineer, Stay at Home Mom, Homemaker, wife and mother….whatever you want to call it….is not easy, but it’s very fulfilling. I wouldn’t have my life any other way, and I am grateful that the Lord has blessed me with the qualities I need to do my job well.

This post was written as part of the Group Writing Project at Mommy Zabs. There’s plenty of time to get your post in, so be sure to check it out!

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Our Camping Adventures - Part 2: The Beach

August 31, 2007

To catch up on what’s happened so far, go here.

Saturday morning we got up, and the kids immediately asked to go down to the beach. The weather was overcast and rather chilly, so I hesitated in taking them down. Finally a friend of mine and I decided that we would take our kids down to the beach and take a walk, come back to the campground for lunch, and then head back down to the beach for swimming.

When we got down to the beach, the kids immediately kicked their shoes off. They saw a little inlet area where the water is really calm and begged to get their feet wet. I consented, with the stipulation that they were not to go in beyond their ankles. This is what happened next.

It gets worse. Sam ended up falling on his backside and got his pants all wet. The poor boy was freezing, but to his credit, he didn’t complain.After playing around in the inlet for a while and checking out the tide pools, we headed back up to the campground for lunch. We hooked up with some other friends and headed back to the beach, where the weather had thankfully gotten a lot warmer.The kids split up, and it amazes me how my kids are so stereotypically boy and girl. Sam was running all over the beach. He got over his fear of the water.

Then he tried to fill up the ocean with sand. That kept him busy for a long time!
Meanwhile, Liz and a friend worked on a sandcastle for the Sand Creation Contest.
They called their creation “The Beach Princess Island Castle”. Do you like the seaweed palm trees? I thought that was very creative. And they won first prize. I’ve never seen Liz so excited!Stay tuned for the final episode of Our Camping Adventures: The Mis-Adventures of Sam.

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Our Camping Adventures - Part 1

August 30, 2007

Now that I have the new blog all set up, I can finally tell you all about our camping experience! We left for our church’s family camp on Friday after my husband got off work. Amazingly, nobody got carsick on the way to the coast. The only way to the coast from our house is a VERY windy road, and we seem to battle car-sickness every year. This year I got smart and loaded us up on Dramamine. My poor husband had to drive, while the rest of us were happily snoring away.

We arrived at the coast and stopped at KFC for dinner. Not very campy, but we didn’t want to be setting up camp after dark. After getting our fill of chicken strips and mashed potatoes, we headed to Fred Meyer to buy some 3 hour fireplace logs. Did I mention that we’re not very good at camping? We’ve learned in past years that making fires is just as hard as it looks on Survivor. We’ve gotten smart and just buy the fireplace logs now. They burn for 3 hours, and they’re easy to light.

We arrived at camp around 6:30. Fortunately for us, some friends took pity on the fact that we were going to get a late start getting up there, and they had our tent set up for us by the time we arrived. We quickly unpacked, blew up the air mattresses, and got everything else in order. I threatened kindly asked the kids not to jump on the mattresses. Two minutes later I heard them jumping on the mattresses. Hopefully I’m not the only mom who has kids who don’t listen.

At 8:00 we were supposed to gather at base camp (basically a big dirt area in the camping loop) for worship and s’mores. Being as my husband is the worship leader, we got ourselves down there on time. Unfortunately the s’mores didn’t get there on time. Turns out the church van had some tire problems and also got a late start. Not to worry, the pastor assured us. The s’mores were on the way.

After a great time of worship and a brief talk about the weekend’s activities, the church van pulled up with the s’mores just as everyone was getting ready to head back to their own campsites. My kids were thrilled, and we gathered ’round the campfire (not our fire…this was a real campfire) to roast some marshmallows. We put together our s’mores (I used a peanut butter cup rather than Hershey’s chocolate…have you ever tried that? Yum!), and had a tasty little snack before the kids begged to go to sleep. Why is it that my kids beg to go to sleep at camp, but I can’t get them in bed on time for the life of me at home? Perhaps I should put tents in their room.

Anyway, back to the story. We washed up the kids and got them tucked in their sleeping bags. After yelling at them kindly reminding them a few times to stop jumping on the mattresses, they fell asleep. Shannon and I spent a precious hour just talking beside our fireplace log campfire. Then we turned in ourselves.

After getting settled in the sleeping bag, I noticed Liz was sighing…loudly. I quietly asked her what was wrong. She replied that her tummy didn’t feel good. Hmmmm. Perhaps the s’mores weren’t such a great idea. She begged to sleep with me. Against my better judgment I consented.

About an hour later, I had to get up to use the restroom. Two pregnancies destroyed my bladder, apparently. When I got back from the bathroom, Liz had rolled over, and I had no place to sleep. No problem, I thought. I’ll just sleep in her sleeping bag next to Sam on the other air mattress.

As I got into her sleeping bag, I realized that all the jumping had taken it’s toll on the air mattress. There was no air in the mattress. It was going to be a long night…

Stay tuned for Our Camping Adventures - Part 2.

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Miniature Golfing

July 7, 2007

Today we went miniature golfing. It’s part of a new weekly routine our family is starting…..Sports Saturday. In order to keep fit and spend some quality time together as a family, we are trying different sports and activities each week.

I know this is only our first week, but so far it’s a good experience. So often we get bogged down in the day to day routines of life, and we don’t take time to really enjoy each other. Even Sam, who never really did get the hang of swinging the club, had a great time. And we discovered that Liz is pretty good at miniature golf.

Next week I think we’ll try bowling.

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Convicted

July 1, 2007

Shannon and the kids brought home a Snickers candy bar for me today after an outing. Knowing full well that they had all had their treats while they were out, I began to eat my Snickers bar.

Sam saw me, and asked if he could have a piece. I told him no, that he had already had his treat.

Sam said “God says you have to share.”

He got a piece.

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I need to lose weight

June 22, 2007

I’ve known this for a while now. I’m not morbidly obese or anything, but my tummy and thighs have been growing bigger since Sam was born 4 years ago. I thought you were supposed to LOSE weight after having a baby!

The clincher came tonight as I was outside talking to my neighbor. My neighbors are from a different country, and I know there are cultural differences as far as what questions are appropriate to ask. I was still flabbergasted, though, when my neighbor asked if I had gained weight! I know for sure it’s time to get serious about losing the extra pounds!

Now I need a specific plan. I have a membership to the YMCA, but I haven’t been working out. I’m thinking about going after my husband gets home from work in the evenings, so I don’t have to pay extra for childcare.

Then there’s my diet. It isn’t horrendous, but I do need to make some changes. I think the Dr. Pepper has to go out the window, as does my coffee with extra cream and sugar. No more stops at Dutch Brothers while I’m out running errands, either.

Beyond that, I have many options. Should I do the South Beach Diet? Weight Watchers? Just exercise more and count calories? (That’s how my husband lost 50 lbs). Does anyone have any other thoughts? Helpful advice?

Until Shannon gets back from his business trip, I guess I’ll just pull out my old Walk Away the Pounds dvds.

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Mom, It’s a Snake!

June 12, 2007

It may as well have been. It was the biggest slug I’ve ever seen!

 
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Special Day with Mom

June 8, 2007

I grew up as the oldest of 4 children. Life was always pretty hectic around our house, and my brothers and I often had to compete for our parents’ attention. It was especially bad during the summer, when we were all home from school and often reciting that familiar mantra “Mom, I’m bored.”

One summer my mom came up with a great idea. She scheduled a babysitter for 4 days out of the summer. Then she wrote each of our names on the calendar on one of those days. That was our special day with mom. There were very few guidelines concerning that day. We each had $10 to spend anyway we wanted. We could go anywhere we wanted, as long as it was legal and moral. That was it. Oh the planning we did. My brother, Brad, decided on a matinee. Justin wanted to go to the comic book store. Charles wanted to go to the toy store.

When my day arrived, I decided to go window shopping at the mall. My mom and I looked at clothes, toys, jewelry, and knickknacks. I think my mom was thrilled to do some “girl stuff”. At the end of our day, we headed over to Coco’s restaurant for hot fudge Sundays! Yum!

Every summer my mom continued this tradition. And every summer my mom and I would spend the day at the mall, followed by hot fudge Sundays at Coco’s. Now that my mom is getting older and is not in the best of health, it’s a memory I will treasure forever. And it’s a tradition I’m going to start this summer with my own children. I wonder what they’ll each decide to do with a free day and $10?

This post is my entry for Scribbit’s Write-Away Contest for June. For more information on the contest, click here.


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Less Mess, Neat Squeeze?

June 6, 2007

That’s what the label says, anyway.

Apparently it doesn’t apply to my son.




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